The Flirt Coach, Benjamin Camras, joins Jessica in today's episode of Access Denied. Jessica and Benjamin discuss the importance of connection and relationships, both with others and with oneself. Benjamin emphasizes the role of fear in pursuing one's passions and the need to transcend it. He also addresses the external barriers, such as comparison and tech challenges, that can hinder personal growth. The conversation explores the power of rejection and the importance of standing in one's power when ending a relationship. Benjamin's vulnerability and relatability make him a unique and inspiring figure in the online space. Rejection plays a significant role in flirting and dating, often leading to self-rejection and missed opportunities for connection. Reframing rejection as choice can help shift the perspective and empower individuals to make their own choices. Connection is essential for a fulfilling life, and rejection can clarify and redirect individuals toward the people and experiences that align with their values. Practicing self-compassion and reminding oneself of one's worth can help navigate rejection and maintain a positive mindset. Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE – big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun! As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms – platonic and romantic connection – to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and ultimately, a deeper connection with the self. You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast, and find out more about working together 1:1 here. Happy flirting! Follow Benjamin! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/benjamincamras/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@benjamincamras Flirtations Podcast: https://benjamincamras.podbean.com/ Jessica's Interview on Flirtations: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5eVxKlPZMXPfkakvzv9YdL?si=199a63c380cc483e Follow Access Denied on socials! Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/accessdeniedpod/⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@accessdeniedpod⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@AccessDeniedPod Follow Jessica Jordan on socials! Website – ⁠⁠https://therollingexplorer.com/⁠⁠ Instagram – ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/therollingexplorer/⁠⁠ TikTok – ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@therollingexplorer⁠⁠ YouTube – ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@therollingexplorer Intro and Outro Music Production by JP Warner Sound: Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://jpwarnersound.com/⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jpwarnersound/⁠ Takeaways: Connection and relationships are essential in life, both with others and with oneself. Fear is a universal human experience, but it can be transcended by turning it into excitement and motivation. External barriers, such as comparison and tech challenges, can hinder personal growth and success. Rejection is a part of dating and flirting, and it's important to approach it with kindness and consideration. Standing in one's power and being authentic are crucial when ending a relationship. Rejection in flirting and dating often leads to self-rejection and missed opportunities for connection. Reframing rejection as choice empowers individuals to make their own choices and maintain agency. Connection is essential for a fulfilling life, and rejection can provide clarity and redirect individuals towards the people and experiences that align with their values. Practicing self-compassion and reminding oneself of their worth can help navigate rejection and maintain a positive mindset. Music can be a powerful tool to boost mood and provide comfort during challenging times.